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Some one said it would be good to create a space for Bible Believing Christians to talk away from those who are aggressively liberal. Well here it is.

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Trevor McDermott Comment by Trevor McDermott on November 10, 2009 at 4:22pm
could everyone please sign the letter to the Indian prime minister on behalf of the 50,000 christians from Orissa at www.faithwithoutfear.org
Dahlia Ambrose Comment by Dahlia Ambrose on October 28, 2009 at 4:20am
'The LORD is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble. Those who know your name will trust in you, for you, LORD, have never forsaken those who seek you. Sing praises to the LORD, enthroned in Zion; proclaim among the nations what he has done.' Psalm 9:9-11
Laura Maxwell Comment by Laura Maxwell on September 30, 2009 at 12:08pm
Please pray for ''From Spiritualism to Christ! Radio Special'' - repeated on Thur 1st Oct, 2009 at 8:45pm UK Time. Many thanks.
On: www.eternalradioonline.com Ever wondered about Spiritualism, what
it is, how it works, its dangers+how to break free? A frank+moving
interview with former Spiritualist Laura Maxwell. (Quote from Stephen Merrick,
Eternal Radio)
Perry Bonnell Comment by Perry Bonnell on September 12, 2009 at 5:51pm
Yes. That presentation on Laminin is rather spine tingling. Thanks for the invite zoe. God is good and He's big! Not sure what tis particular site is about. My prayer is that God revives my soul and gives me vision for my family including my children's lives, my wife and I and my church! It's a great time to be alive and know Jesus Christ, the Creator and
Sustanier of all things, as my Lord, Saviour and Guide!!
zoe rose Comment by zoe rose on September 12, 2009 at 5:02pm
diana kay, i just sent you a message. i believe i did it right! anxiously waiting to hear from you on private chat.
zoe rose Comment by zoe rose on September 12, 2009 at 4:49pm
i've never done this before so i feel a little inadequate. how do i make you a friend, diana kay?
diana kay Comment by diana kay on September 12, 2009 at 4:35pm
zoe this is a public site andcan be accessedby lots ofpeople.Youmay prefer to have a private chat about this if so please accept my frienship offerandwecan chat privately. Not all thepeople on this site are christians.
diana kay Comment by diana kay on September 12, 2009 at 4:27pm
zoethere isno live chat on this site but do post you issueandIwill trytohelp. post it the discussion advice above orprivately ifyouacceptmy friend invite
zoe rose Comment by zoe rose on September 12, 2009 at 4:27pm
well, i'll tell my story anyway in hopes that someone out there can help. my husband and i recently joined a small group of people in our church who love God and are committed to helping especially the members of this small group. there are 5 women, including myself, but not including the men, in this group. a week ago today i was the center of discssion amongst the women. a baby christian in the group was quite irritated at me and privately spoke to another one of the group who is an older, mature christian. she advised that all the women of the group get together and discuss this.( this goes against matthew 18:15 instructing how to handle if you feel like someone has sinned against you). this older christian knew very personak sin that i had confessed to her that she had wanted me to share with the group. I don't know these women all that well so i told her i wasn't ready. well, the night came where my group got together to discuss what this sister was irritated with me for. we spent 5 hours talking and i ended up telling them i am a sex and love addict. that would've been fine had i felt it was my choice. no one put a gun to my head and i should have declined telling them until i was comfortable enough. reasons they gave that i should tell them is 1) it was too much of a burden i had put on the mature sister and she felt she needed the help of the group, 2) if i didn't tell the group then it would cause disunity which they had worked so hard for, 3) they had discussed their personal sins with me so that i should discuss mine. I felt like walking out. but if i did i thought they would be angry and disappointed. (these were my own feelings and not what the group out right said). so i told them EVERYTHING. they advised me to tell my husband EVERYTHING in their presence as well as the men's so that i could get help and held accountable. i felt manipulated to confess and have since then told them this. that it shouldn't have happened that way. i do believe that my husband needs to know. i don't believe that everyone in the group needs to know. my husband agrees although he doesn't know the extent of my addiction yet. since this past saturday with the women i have told the mature christian that i have set up an appt. to see a specialist and have told the specialist of my intent to reveal my adultery to him. she didn't agree that the group shouldn't know. but sadly said she would support me. this past thurs. the women got together as we normally do and sat in a diner. the baby christian started asking why i haven't told my husband yet. that she is very concerned. that she feels sorry for him whenever she sees him. that i should be urgent about the matter. that she feels she's going against her conscience by knowing this and knowing my husband isn't aware. i felt as if she were saying, 'if you don't tell him, i'm feeling maybe i ought to.' i told her to stop. she wouldn't. i warned her that if she didn't stop, i was going to walk out. she said, 'go ahead'. so i preceded to. i was blocked by the mature christian. she wouldn't move but got extremely emotional and i'm guessing concerned for me and what i might do. repeatedly i told her to move in a calm voice and she only got emotional telling me to calm down, don't .bail on them, they love me, how can i be doing this (making a scene) in a racial intolerate part of town (she's black). she finally moved out of the way and tripped in the process. the waiters and waitresses came running over asking if she was alright and should they call 911. she said she was okay and preceded to go another part of the diner and the baby christian joined her. i was beside myself. i knew my part in it should have been to sit still and just listen to the baby christian and then respond. but every part of me said i couldn't allow what happened last saturday happen again. i couldn't let myself be manipulated by guilt and emotion. i ended up talking to the stable one of the group. she was very gentle and calm and understanding. she didn't force her views on me although she did tell me how maybe i couldn've done better. i'm on good terms with her. we've talked since. i have not talked to the other 2 and since have had a restless night, called my doctor for a prescription for a medicine in the same realm of valiam. (never took anything like this so i don't even know how it's spelled) i felt like it was a traumatic night for all of us. both saturday and thursday for me have thrown me for a loop!
Hope you were able to follow along without getting too bored or confused. I am open to any conscructive christian comments or advice.
Thank you so much!
zoe rose Comment by zoe rose on September 12, 2009 at 3:48pm
Is anyone out there?
 

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